abril 29, 2006

The day all by myself

Today I spent the day all by myself. I only talked with my cousin on MSN and with a few people on the phone (my mom, my grandma, Mrs. Leckie and my husband). It was so good to talk with Mrs. Leckie on the phone. She is this sweet lady who is just so dear to my heart. She is having a hard time to talk and walk because of her Parkinson’s disease. But it is funny how her brain is still so sharp and her body can’t answer. I miss her so much.

My husband just arrived in Dearborn and he will grab a dinner on Mueller’s. My mouth is just watering with the thought of their burgers.

My day went well. I went to have some blood work done as my doctor request and then I came back home. I cleaned up some drawers and just watch some TV and spent a little time on the Internet. It actually felt good not to worry with anything else.

Tomorrow I am heading to Guarajuba. I hope the rain stops and we can enjoy a little time on the sun and on the beach.

~ Kisses and Hugs ~

Hoje passei o dia fazendo nada e sem ter que me preocupar.

Falei um pouco com a minha prima no MSN e com algumas pessoas no telefone.

O Paulo acabou de chegar em Dearborn e aproveitou para descrever as belezas que tanto nos fazem falta. Ele vai aproveitar para jantar no Muellers. Posso dizer que minha boca enche d`’agua só em pensar nos cheeseburguers de lá.

O dia foi tranquilo, fiz os famigerados exames de sangue por solicitação médica e depois vim para casa. Arrumei algumas gavestas, assisti TV e aproveitei para dar uma passeada na Internet.

Amanhã estarei indo para Guarajuba. Espero que pare de chover e que possamos aproveitar um dia de sol na praia.

~ Beijos e Abraços ~



abril 28, 2006

Being alone for the first time!!

It is funny that I am 31 years old and I never stayed all by myself 3 weeks in row. Until I got married I used to live with my parents. And this time Paulo will be out of the town for 3 weeks. Ok, one week is already gone, but I still have a Labor Day Holiday and 2 more weeks to go. Paulo is flying from Germany to US tomorrow and he will be visiting all of our friends. We miss them so much.

One of our friends sent me an e-mail saying that they will take a picture and leave a room on it, so I can just cut a picture of me and paste it in there.

I really miss them all; they were like family to us during Paulo’s assignment in US.

Mr. and Mrs. Leckie, Kendra and Mike, Paul and Moj…. You are the best friends ever.

I made plans for tomorrow, especially because my classes were canceled and I really need to keep myself busy. I will do a lot of things around the house that I just pretend I don’t need to do them, like: clean drawers and wardrobes, magazine racks…. Things like that. On Sunday, I am going to Guarajuba to visit our friends and on Monday, I really have to study. So I will try to be as busy as possible.

I hope my DSL keeps working properly for a long time!!!

~Kisses and Hugs ~

** I am tired today, so I will just write in English. **



abril 20, 2006

Interesting Job relation Issue - English as a second language on country called Brazil

I receive a lot of compliments for my "bi-lingual" blog.

And this is something interesting to write about.

I always like to learn languages. I started to learn English when I was 7 ½ years old. I had 4 years of English classes with a private teacher. Her name was Margot and she was an English and German teacher. When I was 11 years old, pre-teen years, I changed to an English school where I had classes for 5 more years.

When I was 17 years old, I just gave up. I was tired and I could write, read and understand anyone that spoke English with me but I COULDN´T speak.

As the American say, if you don't use it you loose it. And of course I forgot a lot of things. In 2001, when I got married and move to Michigan to live there, I was so afraid that I couldn't speak and understand anyone, I was freaking out. So, as my husband was an International Service Employee, as a company policy, I had 100 hours of English classes with a private teacher and I could get 100 more, if it was necessary.

After 2 weeks that I was there, my memory started to pick up and I was really happy because everything that I learned was coming back. On the 5th week, I started to have English classes with Kendra, which became one of my best friends. When she arrived for my first class, it was really strange because I was afraid to speak. After my second class, she said: "When I first started I thought you were a basic student, but you are an advanced one. We have to find college books to you." I was so proud of myself. After this episode, I started to look for Volunteer Jobs. I ended up with 2. The first one was at the Heartland Hospice. I did a lot of office things, like monthly reports on the computer and mailing list. I had this amazing coordinator: Mary Parmentier. She became a good friend as well. And the other one was at the Henry Ford Museum and Greenfield Village. I was indicated by my lovely neighbor Mrs. Leckie. She is one of the sponsors there (I will write a blog all about her, because she deserves). This one was crucial for me to get confidence to speak. I did 4 different interviews with 4 different people and then I was approved. I did a lot of job with people on the museum as a guide, worked with kids on the school projects and I did a lot of back stage jobs as well. I met so many people; they thought me so many things. I miss with all my heart all the good moments I had there.

With all this experience, I came back to Brazil speaking really good English and this was one of my goals there. In a country like Brazil, it is mandatory for young professionals to speak fluent English and to learn another language as well. I am finishing my MBA in May and I hope I will be back to some language school. I didn't decide it will be French or Spanish. I love French and I already did 2 years of Alliance Francaise, but Spanish is more useful when you live in the Latin America.

Well, I hope you like my post today, because I think it is something interesting to describe, especially for those who don't live here.

~Kisses and hugs ~

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Eu tenho recebido alguns elogios sobre meu blog bilngue. Cheguei a conclusão que este seria um tópico interessante para escrever.

Eu comecei a fazer aulas de inglês quando estava na segunda série do primário com uma professora particular, a tia Margot. Tive aulas com ela até os 11 anos quando nos meus anos pré-adolescentes me rebelei e comecei a fazer inglês no Inter. Estudei lá até os 17 anos quando desisiti. Neste período, eu conseguia escrever, ler e entender o que as pessoas falavam mas não conseguia falar, pois tinha vergonha.

Tem um ditado americano que diz "if you don´t use it, you loose it." E é claro que eu esqueci muitas coisas. Em 2001, quando me casei e fui morar em Michigan, eu estava pirando pois achava que não conseguiria falar nem entender nada o que os outros estariam falando. Como o Paulo era um International Service Employee, eu como esposa tinha direito a 100 horas de aula particular.

Depois de 2 semanas que eu estava lá, minha memória começou a ser reativada e eu comecei a relembrar o que tinha aprendido durante os 9 anos de aula. É como se tivesse guardado numa caixa e ela simplesmente se abriu. Na quita semana que eu estava lá, eu comcei a ter aulas com a Kendra, que depois se tornou uma das minhas melhores amigas. Quando ela chegou para minha primeira aula, foi muito estranho pois eu tinha medo de falar. Depois da minha segunda aula, ela disse: Quando eu comecei a dar aulas para você, achei que você era uma iniciante que não saberia nada, mas você é uma estudante avançada. Nós precisamos encontrar livros universtários para vocês." Eu fiquei tão orgulhosa que comecei a procurar trabalhos volnutários. O primeiro foi no Heartland Hospice. Lá, fiz muitos trabalhos no computador para Mary que se tornou uma grande amiga e um grande apoio enquanto estive lá. E o outro foi no Henry Ford Museum and Greenfield Village. Fui indicada pela minha vizinha, Mrs. Leckie, uma senhora maravilhosa que eu conheci lá e que era uma das patrocinadoras do museu (vou escrever um post só sobre ela, pois ela merece). Este emprego foi crucial para eu ganhar confiança de começar a falar. Tive que fazer 4 entrevistas com 4 pessoas diferentes para ser aprovada. Fiz trabalhos como guia do museu, com grupos escolares e também muitos trabalhos de bastidores. Conhcei muita gente interessante, inteligente e que me ensinaram muitas coisas. Sinto muitas saudades deles.

Um dos meus maiores objetivos enquanto eu morava lá, era realmente aprender a falar inglês muito bem pois no Brasil, hoje é mandatório para os profissionais falar inglês fluente e aprender uma outra língua também. Quando eu terminar meu MBA em maio, vou voltar a estudar línguas. Francês ou Espanhol, mas ainda não decidi.

Espero que você goste do meu post de hoje, pois é um ponto de vista interessante para os que não moram no Brasil.

Beijos e Abraços



abril 19, 2006

Easter, Business Trip, Taxes Weekend and Stomach Flu

Hey Guys,

How are you?? I thought April would be calmer than March, but it looks like I was wrong.

My husband is going on a business trip to Germany and US, so as a result he had to unpack all his sweaters and coats to travel and well… they've been packed ever since we came back to Brazil in 2003. So, our laundry machine worked really hard.

Even with all this work, we enjoyed a lot our Easter weekend. We went to have dinner with friends on Saturday night on a Sushi Bar. A lot of sushi and sashimi. YUMMY!!! And on Easter Sunday we went to Sal e Brasa, it is a meat restaurant. It was outrageous. And to top it all… We came home to finish our taxes. This was the first year that we didn't have to do the US taxes. It was a huge relief, because till 2005, we had to do taxes US and Brazil. So, it wasn't that terrible.

I hope I can come back more frequently on the next few weeks, especially because I will be all by myself for 3 long weeks.

Well, to top it all.... My husband got a stomach flu and his fever was really high yesterday. I am praying for him to get back on his feet as soon as possible.

I hope you had a wonderful weekend.

~ Hugs and Kisses ~

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Oi Pessoal,

Eu imaginei que Abril seria mais calmo do que Março, mas eu estava redondamente enganada.

O Paulo vai viajar no próximo domingo para a Alemanha por uma semana e de lá segue para Dearborn por mais duas semanas. Por causa da viagem tivemos que procurar casacos e blusas que estavam guardados a 3 anos, desde que voltamos a morar no Brasil.

Mesmo com este trabalho de "lavadeira", aproveitamos bastante o final de semana de Páscoa. Fomos jantar com amigos no sábado num Sushi Bar e no domingo almoçamos com um outro casal de amigos no Sal e Brasa. Depois de muita conversa no domingo, voltamos para casa para finalizar o no IR... Que coisa mais chata de fazer, mas pelo menos este ano não tivemos mais que fazer IR dos EUA.

Espero voltar a postar mais frequente este mês, até porque ficarei bastante tempo sozinha.

Agora para coroar, o Paulo pegou uma virose e a febre dele estava altíssima, mas hoje ele já está bem melhor!!

Beijos e abraços



abril 04, 2006

My new best friend Betsy

Well I am really proud to say that I bought a bread maker and I named her Betsy. She instantly became one of my best friends. It is definitely the best household utensil I bought on the last few months.

I've been having a field day with her and fresh bread as well ; ) I will put a picture of her soon.

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Estou me sentindo muito orgulhosa em dizer que fiz uma aquisição maravilhosa: uma máquina de fazer pão. Gostei tanto dela que a batizei de Betsy. Ela se tornou uma das minhas melhores amigas na hora e com certeza foi o melhor eletrodoméstico que comprei nos últimos tempos.

Tenho me divertido muito com ela e muito pão caseiro também.



abril 03, 2006

Where did March go??

Hi Everyone,

I just realize that March is over and I didn't see it. I've been working so hard and I had 3 Grad School exams on the past 3 Thursdays and to top it all we had a really busy social month. If all of this wasn't just enough, I've been working hard to have a wonderful Sunday lunch and I am doing a pretty good job. And as far as April is going, it will be the same.

The temperatures in NE Brazil are starting to cool down a bit and the rain season is starting. But the weird thing is that it has been raining only during the week and on weekends the weather is perfect and the temperatures are really enjoyable

Yesterday, I got a call from one of my cousins. It was her birthday on Saturday and I couldn't reach her, so she called me back. We spent a full hour talking on the phone. I was so happy that she called and we made plans to meet this year (She lives far away from me).

The good news is my sister is pregnant and it will be the first grandchild for both sides and the first niece/nephew. I really hope this child will bring the light that my parents really need.

I hope I can stop more frequently this month.

~Kisses and Hugs~

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Oi Pessoal,

Eu acabei de me dar conta que Março acabou e eu não vi o mês passar. Eu tenho trabalhado muito e ainda por cima tive prova na pós-graduação 3 quintas-feiras seguidas e para completar tivemos um mês com muitas atividades sociais. E se tudo isto não fosse suficiente, eu tenho me esmerado para fazer um almoço de domingo excelente e tenho me superado a cada semana. Este foi o primeiro final de semana de abril e pelo jeito será tão intenso quanto março.

As temperaturas no Nordeste estão começando a cair e a estação de chuvas começou. A coisa mais estranha é que tem chovido durante a semana e os finais de semana tem ficado com um sol maravilhoso e temperaturas super agradáveis.

Ontem recebi uma ligação da minha prima Tatiana. No sábado, era aniversário dela e eu não consegui falar com ela, então ontem ela me retornou. Nós conversamos por uma hora inteira. Fiquei muito feliz com o telefonema e acabamos fazendo planos de nos encontrar este ano (Ela mora em Florianópolis e eu em Salvador).

As boas notícias é que minha irmã está grávida. Será o primeiro neto(a) dos dois lados assim como o primeiro sobrinho (a). Eu realmente espero que esta criança traga a luz que meus pais tanto precisam neste momento.

Espero que este seja um mês mais calmo e eu possa postar mais frequentemente.

~Beijos e Abraços ~